MAKE IT DIFFICULT



If you can make it difficult why make it easier?
Look at the negative experience into a positive. If we want to become a mature and time effective, do not give ease to the negative things that are on ourselves.

To obtain good results from our work is to make sense of the appearance less confident that their own!

Other things we have to make it difficult :

a. Negative thinking: This is very harmful to the progress of our lives
b. Feeling lazy : This is to let disappear the motivation to work
c. Anger : This is to let disappear the sense and self control
d. Fear : This is the person who does not dare to tread and try

So if you want to succeed, make it difficult to Negative thinking, feeling Lazy, Anger and Fear.


LA ZZIDO self development

POINT OF VIEW OF THE WHOLE



Will you be able to give an assessment of the book is good or bad just by reading just one page?
You will assess whether someone is good or bad of a course of events?

Basically we can not give the correct assessment to see if only part of the course.
We can provide a more accurate assessment of when to make the point of view of the whole. This is what distinguishes the wise and suburbans.

Be cheerful to a new case. Unlike the frog in the shell, but as sparrow-hawk in the sky.
People who see the problem from the point of view piece usually easier to find the root of the problem and how to solve.

That’s why successful people are usually those who have a perspective piece, hold knowledgeable, always open to new things and not insular.
What about us?
ARE WE LIKE FROG IN THE SHELL, OR AS WE A SPARROW-HAWK IN THE SKY?

LA ZZIDO self development

LA ZZIDO
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Susan wanted to go to the river to wash clothes. When starting a new her activity to wash, see a fish squeezed between rocks thrash. Once Susan approached, the fish said, "If you help, I will grant three request. But remember what you have to get your husband to make ten times. "
Susan's help and ask for fish that turn into beautiful face.
"But your husband will be the most splendid in the world," said the fish.
"No Problem," said Susan. Abrakadabra! Susan be a very beautiful woman. Second request, Susan wanted to become rich. "Remember, your husband will be ten times more rich," says fish. "It's okay. Also own a mine, "Abrakadabra!
"Then the third request?" A fish. "I want to get a light heart attack ....".

Cinta & Kasih Sayang Overcoming Limited Phisicaly

(Hee LEE AH: four finger pianist)
( "Do not compare yourself with others, however try hard as possible to become what
you want ")

Truly, if a concern that young, healthy, but still complained that the circumstances make it difficult not to do this or that. Acts of Hee Ah Lee is one example that provides inspiration that can successfully achieve those who try to willingnes.

Korean women's figure birth in 1985 is a pianist who can play smoothly with the composition-classical composition with very beautiful. Imagine fingers on her hands there are only two, while the feet are only a short knee.

Since the age of six years she taught to play piano. At that time. she can not even hold the pencil. Difficulties also occur in the beam to introduce notation, considering Lee has a mental backwardness. However Lee still has a strong spirit, she requested to be taught to play piano as a person with normal phisical.
Thanks to the tenacity and the spirit of Lee also began to become powerful pianist who is now around the world and has issued one album recording.

Love and affection from the mother who received with the faith, tenacity and a strong desire of Hee Ah Lee was making a lot of inspiration for people around the world. If you feel at this time of life so difficult, to apply this successful formula:
Affection. love, struggle, faith and fortitude.

STRESS YANG BAIK

Stress yang "baik" atau eustres, ialah tekanan yang mampu membuat seseorang untuk bertindak, bukan apatis. Stress diubah menjadi tantangan yang mengasyikkan. Sebuah penelitian di Inggris, menguji hal ini. Sekelompok orang ditawari untuk mengerjakan 120 soal matematika rumit. Jika jawaban mereka benar, mereka akan langsung diberi hadiah uang, sebaliknya mereka harus membayar uang denda jika salah.. Hasilnya, mereka yang mampu menciptakan stress yang baiklah, yang pulang membawa uang. Mereka mampu menguasai diri dan tidak menganggap stress sebagai tekanan, tetapi tantangan yang mengasyikkan. Seperti saat kita berusaha menamatkan sebuah game.
Ditemukan bahwa kadar hormon kortisol, hormon stress, dalam diri mereka, rendah kadarnya, oleh sebab itu mereka bisa menguasai diri.
Penguasaan diri sangat penting dalam hidup. Perkuliahan yang berat, mungkin saja membuat kita merasa lelah dan lemah sehingga akhirnya menyerah. Dengan latihan menguasai diri kita akan bisa meningkatkan prestasi kita. Ingat, anggaplah stress bukan tekanan, tetapi tantangan yang mengasyikkan. Buang jauh jauh pikiran akan kegagalan. Berusahalah yang terbaik dan nikmatilah stress, jangan ditakuti.
Contohlah perasaan saat anda berusaha menamatkan game kesayangan anda. Berpikirlah positif dan raihlah prestasi anda. Percayalah anda bisa mengendalikan diri anda sendiri!!
Ayo kita coba, ubah stress dari "tekanan" menjadi "tantangan" yang menyenangkan !!

Self Confidence Counceling

To lose your self confidence is to lose your very fiber of trust in yourself. Instead of a person able to freely make sound judgment calls and possesses excellent decision making skills, individuals that lack self confidence are constantly second guessing themselves and often unable to make even the simplest decision without gnawing worry and concern.

If you have found yourself to be slipping into the pit of low self confidence, do not worry, there is hope! Instead of berating yourself over poor actions that occurred in the past, change your future. Seek out counseling that will enable you to rebuild and maintain your self confidence at unparalleled levels.

The first step to self confidence counseling is making the commitment to seek out and attend these helpful sessions. Whether private or in a group setting, this counseling can be the spark that changes your life. You may enter the sessions as a self doubting, passive individual, but you will leave full of hope and optimism with the ability to totally trust your own actions and judgments. Before you enter counseling, consider any potential obstacles in your current life.

Perhaps your spouse, family member, friend, or co-worker has lowered your self confidence and may be detrimental to your counseling. Perhaps you have experienced low self confidence since childhood and need to break the cycle imposed upon you by your parents or guardians.

Maybe you are in a difficult situation at your job, with employees, bosses, or colleagues constantly tearing away at your self confidence. Whatever the case, you should be prepared to make the commitment to begin a new way of life in order to rebuild your self confidence. Even the smallest changes will help you in this process. Being in the right frame of mind before you begin will assist you to your goal in a quicker, more positive manner.

Once you have determined to seek counseling, begin researching viable options. The World Wide Web is a great source of information on counseling spots in your city or town. If you feel entering counseling will be too overwhelming for you or your schedule does not allow it, the Internet is also a great tool that enables you to virtually meet and discuss with individuals from all over the world.

There are many websites, forums, and chat rooms devoted to individuals working to rebuild their self confidence. You can join these sites anonymously if you are worried about others finding out your private information, but still have the capability to begin some type of counseling. Many individuals have a strong, confidence façade, but lack the same components on the inside. If you find yourself in this situation and do not want the world to know you have a problem with your self confidence, this method of virtual counseling is perfect for you.

Traditional counseling tends to be the most effective method of rebuilding your dwindling self confidence. Universities, hospitals, churches, civic groups, and even local organizations offer counseling of one sort of another. You may be interested in joining a support group in order to interact with others that share your feelings of doubt and distrust.

Many individuals find themselves too shy or ashamed for one reason or another to join a support group, or any other type of group counseling, immediately. If you find yourself in this boat, consider private counseling first, then graduating on to group counseling. If money is a concern, it should be known that group counseling is usually a great deal cheaper—if not free—than private, one-on-one counseling.

What ever form of counseling you decide upon, enter into it with seriousness and determination. If you maintain a positive attitude and strive towards achieving your goals, your self confidence is guaranteed to drastically improve.

Ten Tips to Improve Your Self-Esteem

The best way to improve your life and earn the respect of others is to improve your self-esteem. This is not a very difficult task. All that it needs is good guidance. Here are ten tips that can happen when you improve your self--esteem.

1. You should surround yourself with people who are positive and supportive, and shun friends who are cynical and negative. This will generate a huge swell of positive feelings in you. You will respect yourself more, and your self-esteem will grow.

2. You should be clear about what you want to achieve in life. Set goals, and work for their achievement. To make your task easier, break your main goal into several smaller goals which are relatively easier to achieve. This will make the task of reaching your main goals seem easier. It will also give you a feeling of satisfaction whenever you achieve one of the smaller goals.

3. Always be positive about yourself and keep reminding yourself about your good qualities, your accomplishments and how you help your family, friends, others and yourself. Don’t make the mistake of brooding over negative things, and never put yourself down.

4. Develop the ability to accept criticism about yourself, without getting upset or defensive. This will help you eliminate your weaknesses one by one. However, make sure that the criticism is constructive. Don’t allow yourself to be overwhelmed by criticism that is cynical or meant to lower your self-esteem. This will be a great mistake, and do irreparable damage to your self-esteem.

5. We all need to accept the fact that we will fail from time to time. We should not let it get us down or to have too much of a negative effect on us. We should think that we have not been successful this time and that we will succeed the next time. This will help us to pull ourselves together and move on. Such an attitude will help us overcome the most difficult conditions.

6. Never compare yourself with others. This is the easiest way to feel inferior and lose self-esteem. It is much better to rate yourself on your achievements. Such an approach will give you self-confidence. At the same time it will make you feel better when dealing with your peer group.

7. Never put yourself down. Failures are like parasites. If you allow them to grow they will eat away your self-confidence, self-respect and self-esteem. The best is to push negative thoughts out of your mind, if you want others to treat you with respect. This can only happen when you project a positive exterior, even in most adverse situations. Make it a point to filter out all self-criticism.

8. Don’t give in to bullies in your place of work or in your personal life. You must learn to stand up to them. This can only happen if you are assertive about your rights. Of course, this does not mean that you should pick up physical battles to make your point. On the contrary, you should exercise restraint and make your point in a dignified manner. This will not only make others treat you with respect but also increase your self-esteem.

9. You may be self-conscious and because of this you may avoid talking to groups of people. Try to approach groups of people and introduce yourself to them. Ask them questions about themselves and try to be genuinely interested in the answers. Listen carefully and attentively to what they say and respond to show your interest. Interacting with people will make you feel more relaxed. You will realize that it is easy to speak to groups of people and to relax by concentrating on what others are saying, rather than on yourself.

10. Self-esteem is also dependent upon the felling of well-being. A lazy person or a poorly groomed person will always feel inferior to a confident, smart individual. So, you need to take good care of your body. Remember, a healthy body is essential for a healthy mind.